I See You 2020
2020 is hear y’all and so I’m ready to take a bite out of this new decade and really dig into my goals, dreams and aspirations. As I sit back and reflect on this past year, I know one thing for sure; 2019 was about truly connecting with myself, re-connections and letting go of what no longer serves me. This year has taught me a lot about myself and I have learned some hard lessons, but I couldn’t be happier with where I stand today. One of my biggest obstacles has been worrying too much about what others think of me. Unfortunately, this is something I have struggled with since I can remember. It is something I have tried for many years to overcome and no such luck, until this past year. I had been living in the dark with this issue and finally the light switch was turned on, and I realized, I can no longer live this way. For anyone else struggling with this, my word of advice is “people have already formed their opinions of you so nothing you say or do will make them like you more or less”. This realization was incredibly freeing for me and made me realize that I needed to put my energy into my aspirations and those people in my life who have loved me regardless. I now realize that spending time trying to force situations or wonder why people do not except me is not any of my business. As I enter this new decade, I want to start living my life me and put to rest the negative conversations I have with myself on a daily basis. In 2019 my journey and path gained much clarity through; self-reflection, blogging, yoga, conversations with friends and family, taking breaks from social media, mediation and the continued internal struggle to trust the process.
With that said I’m going into 2020 with the following affirmation:
I no longer need hardcore proof to validate what my intuition tells me. If something feels off about a person/place/thing, it’s because something is off. I’m not sticking around to discover what it is. My time & my energy are way too valuable. -bossladiesmindset
Please leave a comment and tell what affirmations you are walking into 2020 with?
